more questions

We got another set of questions by Heike who nominated us for the Liebster Award (thank you very much!!). Since this blog is mainly for friends and family, I will kindly resign from passing on new questions to other blogs (and hope that I won’t be struck by lightening) but I’ll be happy to answer the questions. So here we go:

1. What do you want to achieve with your blog?

Up-to-date friends and families. And the feeling that I am still able to do something else apart from playing with toy blocks.

Since my first semester abroad I write (more or less) regular emails with updates and pictures to all of our friends and families. However, Karsten and I both studied English study programs so many of our friends don’t speak German, so we thought of a way how to keep them updated too. The blog is not supposed to replace personal communication, but it’s a good way to give a small insight into our lives and to store thoughts and stories.

2. What do children mean to you?

They mean fun. Wonderful moments. Cherishing small things. Sleepless nights. A higher tolerance towards noise (or lower, depends on the point of view…). Greater coffee consumption. Stains on my shirts. Crumbs in my hair. Smelly diapers. Different perceptions. Happiness. Pride. Life in the joint.

3. What are you afraid of?

That something bad will happen to my loved ones. I know that things can change quickly so I try to cherish the moment as good as I can. I am also afraid of creepy horror movies.

4. When was the last time you laughed out loud and why?

I laugh a lot, especially since I know my husband. I laughed out loud yesterday evening because he wanted me to check his birthday letter for his grandmother. When I read it I started crying because I was moved to tears and then I started laughing because I imagined how his grandmother will react if even I start crying while reading it…what a great birthday letter! But I might have already laughed out loud again since then. (Update 2 hours later: there you go…I involuntarily laughed out loud at lunch when the little one sneezed in my face while having her mouth full of potato-carrot-chicken mush.)

5. What bothers you most about other blogs?

Advertisement. I know that there might be advertisement in my blog too because I haven’t got the paid version yet (I’ll change that soon). But I don’t promote any online businesses or else and I find it highly annoying if business blogs follow me just in order to increase their stats (side note: if you are the writer of one of these blogs: none of my readers can see you anyway, so you might as well stop following…).

6. Tea or coffee?

Both! I love my coffee! I need my coffee! Coffee is awesome! But in the evening I love drinking tea.

7. What do you do to relax?

I read. I work in the garden. I go for a walk and take my camera with me. I sit in a café and watch people passing by. All of that ideally without a baby clinging to my leg.

8. What would you like to overcome?

My laziness. And my habit to postpone important phone calls.

9. Down-hill or cross-country skiing?

Cross country!

10. Facebook or Google+?

Both creepy. If at all, facebook. But I do try to be very passive and just keep my account to keep my contacts.

11. What do you think about my questions?

Short and to the point. And the last one slightly narcissistic 🙂

 

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today…

…was the first time in 9 1/2 months (!!) that someone voluntarily offered me the space in the stroller area on the train! Yippee!

It was a Vietnamese couple. So much for foreigners occupying the seats in Swiss trains.

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Challenge succeeded

Yesterday, we invited our neighbours for coffee and cake. What sounds like a casual thing to do can actually become quite a challenge – especially in Switzerland.

We live in a house with six flats and when we moved here last year, we took the opportunity and invited everyone over in order to introduce ourselves and to get to know them. In the building we lived before, we didn’t know anyone and we really missed the communication. After all, you do meet in front of the door, in the laundry room (in Switzerland, the buildings have a communal laundry machine in the basement) or in the garden. In our current building we are blessed with very nice neighbours who kindly ignore the little one banging her toys on the floor. And we noticed that everyone seemed to enjoy the chance last year to meet up with the others over coffee and cake. So when we came back from Finland we thought we repeat it.

The challenge in inviting Swiss neighbours over lies mainly in fulfilling the high standards. If you think Germans get things done it is nothing compared to the Swiss!! Switzerland is an incredibly clean country. As a stranger you don’t get invited to Swiss homes that easily, but if you do you’ll soon notice the lack of any dust, crumbs or any kind of chaos. You can, as you say in German, eat from the floor. In our flat you can eat from the floor too, especially after a meal with the little one. I am already struggling in fulfilling my communal cleaning duty. Inviting 10 people over to a flat that is regularly haunted by our daughter seems like an impossible thing to do. Therefore, I spent the entire Saturday cleaning. And half of the Sunday after the little one had played for two hours and had her lunch.

In addition to the cleaning comes the baking. Swiss people, especially elderly people, seem to have a perfection when it comes to baking and cooking. For christmas we put a little bag of christmas cookies into the letter boxes of our neighbours and I kind of ignored the fact that the cookies we got back as a thank you tasted much better than ours. By now I am trying to foster the “deal-with-it”-attitude, though I am still figuring out whether I should apply it to myself or the others…So, I spent the other half of the weekend baking: a Finnish spice cake, a lemon cake…and because one very persuasive person in the household insisted on it, I made chocolate chip cookies as well.

On Sunday afternoon we had a full house, some additional chairs in the living room and a happy little one that smiled at each and everyone. The lemon cake was pretty sour and the coffee quite strong…(deal with it). But they seemed to enjoy the afternoon. Even the old lady from upstairs came although she normally never joins any social invitations. Maybe we should make it a tradition. And after all, with the little one we have a good excuse if things are not perfect.

And now it’s Monday: time to relax!

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Blogger schenken Lesefreude – or how you might be a lucky dog and get a book for free

In 1995, the UNESCO declared the 23rd of April as the International Day of the Book. In order to promote that day and to promote reading, the initiative “Blogger schenken Lesefreude” (Bloggers passing on the joy of reading…rough translation) calls for bloggers to raffle off books they enjoyed.

When I saw this project, I thought I might join too since books play a rather important role in our life. Both Karsten and me love reading and it was one of the first topics that we talked about before we even got together. In fact, one of our first emails was about how great it is to sit in front of a fireside drinking hot chocolate and reading a good book. The book we talked about in that email was “The 13 ½ lifes of Captain Bluebear” by Walter Moers – still one of our all-time favourites. It’s full of adventures, fun and excitement and it’s incredible that a person can channel so much imagination in one book. It’s one of these books that you read several times, again and again, and you never get tired of it. And it’s one of the books that we both love. Because when it comes to books, we do have quite a different taste.

When Karsten first told me about the books he loves, I thought this guy is just showing off…Hesse? Dumas? Hugo? Tolstoi? What 21-year-old guy actually reads these books and admits it? (that was, by the way, one of the first reasons why I fell in love with him). Karsten loves classics but also modern books, preferably Japanese, and socio-critical books. When I asked him whether there is a book he really loves and that he wants to raffle off in order to create “Lesefreude” he immediately declined. Which I should have foreseen. First of all, for Karsten books are sacred. He has to own them, not borrow, and therefore if he loves a book he would never ever give it away (sorry, dear reader…). And secondly, as he correctly stated, his books are normally pessimistic and therefore don’t create direct happiness so they don’t qualify for this project (according to him. I suspect the second one to be linked to the first one).

I, on the contrary, like a little bit of everything. I like classics, I like socio-critical books. But I also love phantasy books (which Karsten hates), I enjoy historic novels if properly researched, I like detective stories and I very much appreciate well-written children books. I like having a library pass and when I travel and I have finished a book, I exchange it for a new one instead of keeping it.

Since the little one was born, we don’t have as much time for reading as before. Logically. But we still manage to read every now and then. When the little one was born I used the breastfeeding breaks for reading and I actually managed to read a lot. It’s been a bit more difficult right now. But I got used to carrying a book in the stroller bag, so whenever she is still sleeping after a walk, I can sit down and read a few pages.

So both Karsten and I were thinking which book we could use for the raffle and we decided to go with Winnie the Pooh (in English)! Another book both of us thoroughly enjoyed and which has its fixed spot in our bookshelves. It is one of these children books which is nice for children but shows a completely new level when you read it again as an adult. It is one of these books where we laughed so hard we cried (literally!). Also because you can identify yourself with the characters (I guess there is a little bit of Eeyore in everyone…). And that’s why we put it in the raffle. As you might guess, we are not giving away our own book – we bought a new one for you. 🙂

So, here is the deal! For you to take part in the raffle, you have to leave a comment and tell me one of your all-time favourite books. One that you read again every now and then and that you don’t get tired of. One that has touched you somehow.

(And don’t worry: you don’t have to be registered to write comments. All you need is your email address).

We are looking forward to your recommendations!!

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three years ago…

The Royal Botanic Garden in Edinburgh is one of the most beautiful Botanic Gardens I have ever seen. Big old trees, stone gardens, ponds, cultivated areas with perfectly cut grass versus small, secret areas, big rhododendron bushes, greenhouses, squirrels, flowers…It took days to discover all the beautiful spots. I have spent so many happy hours there, mostly in the morning with a large coffee latte from the East Gate. When I struggle to fall asleep and I need to clear my mind, I still recall the steps from our flat to my favourite bench in the Garden. I remember how it felt to step outside our basement flat (it normally went from cold to warm…), how it smelt outside, how the pavement felt underneath my feet. I remember which turns to take in order to get to the bench which was off-track, hidden behind some beautiful rhododendron bushes. It’s one of the strongest memories I’ve got.

Three years ago, Karsten and I spent a wonderful spring morning in the Botanic Garden. It ended at said bench with a marriage proposal and 101 reasons why Karsten loves me. One of the best days in my life!

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Acclimatization continues

Today was our first baby swimming class in Zurich. Unfortunately, it’s during the week so Karsten can’t join, but the little one is getting more and more enthusiastic about swimming which is really nice to see.

Of course, baby swimming in Zurich is slightly different from Turku. We don’t have to take the bus at 8am on a saturday morning anymore. Now we swim at lunchtime (and when I say lunchtime, I really mean lunchtime!). We don’t sing in Finnish anymore but in Swiss German. It takes place in a very small spa with no proper changing rooms, so we change in the spa itself. Which was fine until after the class old men entered the spa while we were still changing. I suspect it’s a trick to make us change faster! And there is no sauna. But the room was so hot that it can almost count as replacement 🙂 The group is really small which is good, we do more games and songs as a group and the spa is situated on the 32nd floor of a hotel with a fantastic view over Zurich and the Alps. It simply doesn’t get more fancy than that!!

And yesterday evening we started the BBQ-season with our friends. The weather has been almost summerlike and we heated up the barbecue early enough so we had dinner outside together with the little one before she went to sleep.

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Sunny weekend

Such a sunny, productive weekend! Trip to Ikea, afternoon stroll in Zurich with my mother (unfortunately due to a nasty flu only for a few hours before she continued back to Germany), ice-cream at the lake. each day baby entertainment (starting 6am), work in the garden, fresh banana bread, picnic at the university garden with friends. Minor drawbacks: the occasional bad mood of the little one and and the crowds of people in Zurich (I forgot how exhausting Zurich on a sunny weekend can be).

Evening to be continued with oven-roasted vegetables…

After digging over the garden beds

After digging over the garden beds

Wild tulips

Wild tulips

Banana bread

Banana bread

Enjoying the sunshine

Enjoying the sunshine

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Traces of the kitchen gnomes...

Traces of the kitchen gnomes…

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Spring work part 1

Since we are back in Zurich it has become a bit more difficult to find the time for blogging. In Turku I used the little ones afternoon nap for writing because after going for walk I could put the stroller in our flat so that she wouldn’t wake up. I can’t do that anymore because we don’t have an elevator in Zurich. So, when I go for a walk and the little one is still sleeping when I am returning home there are three options. I could wake her up (ok, that’s not really an option, so lets skip that). I could sit down on the bench in front of our building and read a book. Which I like to do, but often I forget to bring one. So at the moment, I am going for the third option: I am weeding.

When we moved to our new flat, we were told that we could rent a garden lot right behind the building if we want to. There is an area divided into smaller lots where the tenants can grow vegetables and flowers. A bit like the German Schrebergärten, but without the huts. We thought that it sounds interesting but since Karsten has to work on his field from April to November and is normally completely knocked out in the evening and since I was already 7 months pregnant I doubted that we’d have the time to work in the garden during the summer. And you don’t want to make a bad impression as a new tenant by neglecting your garden. Especially not in Switzerland. My project was to keep the plants on the balcony alive that year (something we failed big time the year before although we only had three plants).

During the next weeks, I found myself exposed to various persuasion methods by Karsten (“Of course I will have time to water the garden in the evening after I spent 8 hours on the field and had some quality time with the little one!!”). And the neighbours did their best too. They told us that if we wait one year the garden lot will be covered with weed and it will be very difficult to get rid of it again. Good point! So one day Karsten convinced me to share a garden lot with our friends and to just plant a wild flower mix which will suppress the weed until we find time to do some proper gardening later on.

Two days later he was planning all the vegetables we were going to plant.

That’s how we became proud gardeners. It has been both a blessing and a curse. The previous owner didn’t find the time to pull weeds (he had children, haha…) so they happily proliferated. Late spring, a lot of plants were suddenly growing in our garden and after some time of happiness (uuuuuh, I wonder what flower that little green seedling will turn into…) we were faced with thousands of thistles and millet. Our summer was a constant fight against them. Against them and the armada of slugs that invaded the lot every evening.

Apart from thistles we had some vegetables too. Some garden radish (a few of them even managed to grow bigger than a pea), some potatoes (we planted blue ones, but harvested yellow), some chard and an explosion of zucchini (basically we had zucchini every single day last summer – I am not exaggerating). The previous owner also left raspberries and strawberries! So when my nesting instinct kicked in during the 9th month, I lovingly put wooden wool underneath the strawberries (the little one’s room hasn’t been completely furnshished until today…) And it is really cool to be able to say “I am going to the garden and get dinner!”.

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This is how it looked like last year at the end of the summer

But it’s a lot of work too. Mostly because many of the other tenants are not only Swiss but also former agriculturists. Their beans and peas are sowed meticulously with exact gaps between them. Our plants are growing here and there and with 50% we still don’t really know what they are until they are fully grown.

So this is where I am when the little one is sleeping. The green stuff that looks like weed is some leftover spinach and the wildflower mix that we didn’t cut back on time last year, so it turned into weed this year…I will do a proper before-and-after-photo as soon as there is progress to see 🙂

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FIrst flower of the year

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Greetings from the onion cave

Since babies shouldn’t take nose drops, a cut onion is supposed to bring some relief for the little one at night. So far, I couldn’t observe any progress, but the smell in the bedroom is quite impressive by now.

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Being home again

Yesterday evening, we arrived back home again. The journey went well, the little one once again proved to be a good travel companion. Just the last 20 minutes in the plane and the ride home by car was too much for her, but she was incredibly tired so who can blame her. We had nice people around us in the plane who all smiled at her and entertained her, which made us much more relaxed (note to every childless reader: if you are annoyed by crying children in the plane or train, please keep in mind that it’s not really you who is stressed out but the mother ;-)).

Being back home again feels great, but also a little bit odd. We were sad to say good-bye to our friends in Turku who became very dear to us. But we are also happy to say hello to our friends in Zurich again! Karsten’s parents picked us up at the airport, with a big red balloon for the little one (which she adored from the second she saw it). At home, the fridge was full, there was a blooming cherry branch with colourful easter eggs in a vase, a chocolate welcome in our letterbox, a flower welcome from our neighbours in front of our door, marzipan under our blanket…We feel very blessed.

It smells good at home. We have all our books around us again. The little cherry tree on the balcony is almost blossoming. On the window is still the christmas decoration. Karsten needed three attempts to find the cups in the kitchen. And this morning he asked: “Where do we keep our laundry basket again?”. The red kites are still cruising outside the kitchen window. The little one crawls everywhere and I am getting nervous – we left with a baby and came back with almost a toddler and the flat is not at all childproofed yet. There are so many things for her to discover. No wonder that she slept horrible tonight (consequently so did I). But we’ll take it slow today. Unpack. Say hello. Do some shopping. Check our garden. Play and discover!

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