garden review

In 2014, I spent a lot of time in the garden and so did the little one. While I enjoy spending some meditative hours with weeding and planting, the little one truly discovered the garden as a source of food and we are quite happy that she turned out to be so keen on fresh fruits and vegetables this year. Hopefully it’ll be the same next year!

I have been waiting for some snow in order to add a winter picture to our garden review. But instead of ice and snow we now have spring-like temperatures shortly before christmas. It’s crazy. Our cherry tree on the balcony is already budding. The sledge that the little one was supposed to get for christmas is probably postponed until next year. Karsten recently read that Zurich hasn’t had a complete day of frost for the whole year. Coincidence or Climate Change?

So, no snow picture this year. Fingers crossed for some colder temperatures during the next weeks….christmas is just so much more cosy with snow and ice!!

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a perfect christmas present

In a bit more than a week it’s already Christmas Eve…can you believe it? How come that time just seems to fly a bit faster every year? But hey, at least we are almost done with our christmas gifts, and the ones that still need to be done involve baking, crafting and wrapping….all things that I love to do (also, I think my baking curse is almost gone).

Unfortunately, we found the perfect christmas present when most of our gifts for the family had already been bought. So we thought we’ll advertise our perfect gift here and maybe inspire you to buy it too. It’s a perfect combination of a present and a good cause! But in order to explain why it is a perfect gift for us, I have to go a bit farther back:

See, things have been going on in Germany during the last weeks that we don’t approve of. Movements that actually really worry us and that we have been aware of for years now but that seem to increase every month, if not every week or even every day. Xenophobia is something I wholeheartedly condemn. I understand that some people fear for their jobs and personal freedom (whether that is justified is another question…) and that some people might feel uncomfortable by being surrounded by the non-familiar. I also know that xenophobia is not a specific German problem but that you’ll find it in almost every society, no matter where, and in almost every shape. But that doesn’t mean that I have to take it for granted.

One specific form of xenophobia which has, in my opinion, heavily increased during the last months is the aversion and aggression towards asylum seekers. I can neither understand nor accept it. May it be in Switzerland where asylum seekers in one region were suddenly not allowed to enter public spaces like pools, playgrounds or churches, or in Germany were you can’t open a new asylum building without being confronted by demonstrations and violence. When I read about things like this, I can’t help but wonder why people feel this way and whether there is still something called empathy to be found. What is so wrong about helping those who need help? Why is it so hard to be friendly? Especially when even our definition of low-income is still incredibly high compared to most parts of the world. Why don’t people wonder what the other person might have been through before applying for asylum? Applying for asylum surely isn’t something that you do out of a clear blue sky and it is not an easy process either.

A few years ago we thought neonazis were the big problem. Nowadays I notice that it’s not just the neonazis – with all the new nationalistic parties and a general islamophobia among the population the whole issue is taken to a whole new dimension. And I don’t like it.

Fortunately, there are projects and ideas which show that stupidity has not taken over the whole human race. One of these projects is called “Über den Tellerrand kochen” and was founded by students in Berlin. It started as a project to bring together refugees and residents and is about cooking together, spending time together and sharing stories. This December, a cook book was published which includes recipes from all over the world as well as the stories of their contributors.

The cook book is written in both German and English and with the revenues of the book new projects will be supported in order to improve the integration of refugees. So if you are still looking for a good christmas present: here it is! Buying this book doesn’t solve the problem. But it’s a good way to support integration projects and it is a way to oppose xenophobic movements. Go for it!

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christmas marathon baking

Since two years, we have a new christmas tradition. On one day in December we meet with our friends and we bake christmas cookies. A lot of christmas cookies. Everyone is allowed to choose one or two recipes which is a perfect way of trying out new stuff and also a perfect and quick way to fill the cookie jars.

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It also means that the oven is basically heating all day long. There is an endless loop of washing pots and dishes, the cookies are piling up everywhere on the tables and the floors and latest after two hours the air is saturated with sugar and spices. In the first year, Karsten still had the ambition to serve baked apples with marzipan and vanilla ice cream in the afternoon. What shall I say…sometimes you have to learn it the hard way. This year, we only served salad. And maybe it’ll be further reduced to wasabi peas next year.

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In the evening of our marathon baking day, everyone is exhausted, hot, overfed with sugar and happy about all the different types of cookies in the jars.

This year we tried a lot of new recipes. The only all-time favorite were the black-and-white cookies by our friend (he brought the whole marathon baking to perfection by being the first to prepare his dough, then spending some concentrated time on the making and then lying back and relaxing the rest of the day).

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Our other friend made nutmeg-cookies and fruit cake (though the fruit cake wasn’t finished as we run out of time after almost 8 hours of baking). Karsten decided to bake nutmeg-maple sirup cookies and Finnish pinwheels (a very interesting and challenging recipe as the dough is made out of whipped cream, flour and butter and Karsten used an inch rule to get the precise measurements of the squares…). And I made sweet chestnut doughnuts and Bethmännchen (made of marzipan, sugar, almonds and rose-water).

Well, the jars are full now. So are our stomachs. In order to get the final sugar kick, we can now watch Charlie and the Chocolate Factory on tv….

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life of a PhD student

Excerpt from one of Karsten’s messages:

“…and I entered my office and thought “Ok, I need a pen and paper!”. Finding paper wasn’t a problem, there is paper everywhere on the desk. Finding a pen went like this: opening drawer 1: no pen. Opening drawer 2: no pen. Pushing aside the paper on the desk: no pen. And then I pondered and I thought “Ok, I lately saw a pen in the lower left corner of my desk!” (I just got 8 new pens from office supplies recently). And there I indeed found a pen – although it wasn’t the one I was looking for but a different one”

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Ps: I always feel the deepest sympathy with his office colleague who works on the desk at the right-hand side. The one where everything is put in a symmetrical way.

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holy family waiting for christmas…

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Josef is standing on the roof on the lookout for Jesus, Maria is having a serious talk with the elephant which arrived almost a month early, the camel needs a rest, the penguin is wondering what he is doing in a barn, and the dog and the sheep are sleeping (or are totally overwhelmed by the newly arrived special guest…).

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back to work

I can’t tell anymore in which job I pictured myself when I thought about going back to work. But it definitely involved a change from my daily routine and the ability to focus on an intellectual task again. Two days a week would be perfect, I thought. I would arrive at my office, I thought, and make myself a nice cup of tea before I sit down and check my work emails. I would then start researching something, or create a project plan, I thought. I would be able to use the restroom whenever I need to, I imagined. I would be able to make phone calls and actually understand what the other person is saying, I pictured. After a productive morning I would have a peaceful lunch before I head home to pick up the little one and enjoy the afternoon with her.

Well. Yesterday at work I found myself surrounded by more than 45 roisterous, romping kids. I was bustling from one room to another, checking whether everything is fine with the cookie-baking, with the handcrafts, with the selling of the cakes, with the singing. I decorated, I replaced the people in the kitchen, I explained how to make gingerbread houses, I cleaned, I pushed tables, I prepared little bags with sweets for the Samichlaus (who comes on the 6th of December to every Swiss child and brings bags with fruits, nuts and sweets). Later I quickly made some more because there were more children than expected. I heard laughter, cries, music, singing, rattling, bells, high-pitched whistling, several sliding cars, shouting, door-clapping. Sometimes all at once. I worked seven hours, I didn’t have lunch, I only sat for maybe 30 minutes, I didn’t have time to go to the restroom.

Coming home never felt more relaxing!

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feeling blessed

Sometimes, christmas just happens to be a little bit earlier than expected! This morning, the postman rang and brought us an amazing parcel from Finland – amazing not only in its size but also in its look (seriously, why can’t other countries design such awesome parcels as well?).

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And while I was tearing up a little I am pretty sure our friends teared up a bit too when they dropped the parcel off at the post office and realised the postage 🙂 See, one of the very few disadvantages of living in Switzerland is the postage! Sending parcels to and from Switzerland is just ridiculously expensive. Which is mean because I love sending letters and parcels and I am suffering quite a bit because I haven’t been able to send proper birthday parcels to my friends simply because the postage always exceeds the value of the actual present. If someone sends us a parcel it’ll be a one-time-only thing because they will be too put off by the postage to do it a second time. This is what happens if you live in a country that sits in the middle of the EU without being part of it…Which is also the reason why we have brought our personal family-run import-export service almost to perfection (three cheers for our relatives living close to the border).

But the parcel from Finland today…Wow! Although it was hard to wait until we were all gathered together this evening I managed to keep it unwrapped (and un-sat and un-stood and un-broken which was even more challenging) for the whole day. So this evening at dinner time we had a little pre-christmas gift-giving moment and basically unpacked a complete Finnish christmas season!

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So much good stuff! Christmas tea! Christmas coffee (with cinnamon and cardamom). Ginger bread. Little christmas figures. Christmas chocolate. Blueberry tea. Finnish jam. And and and…..

We feel incredibly blessed to have such great friends in our live! And we sincerely hope that the postage didn’t reduce your next week dinner plans to bread and butter. You guys are awesome and you made our day!!

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welcome December!

Yesterday first Sunday in Advent, today First of December….christmas time has finally and officially arrived! So has the first cold this winter which has hit not only the little one but also Karsten and myself. We were therefore sneezing our way through the weekend, accompanied with a lot of hot elderberry juice and ginger tea.

The flat looks christmassy, but not christmassy enough. The christmas calendar is still missing some decoration, the cookie box is still empty, the christmas cds still have to be dug out. One by one, I tell myself!

Anyway, I managed to bake some almond bread yesterday which is one of our family traditions. It’s a bread made out of flour, sugar and almonds which gets its special taste from various christmas spice that are added. For me, the smell and the taste of this bread (you can eat it like this or with butter, nothing else) is inevitably linked to Advent and christmas – it has to be on the breakfast table on the first Sunday in Advent, there is no way around it. I would estimate that my mother bakes around 30 breads each December which are eaten or given away as christmas greetings.

Unfortunately, my baking seems to be cursed. First I messed up the chocolate chip cookies I made for our music group on Friday. Then I messed up the chocolate cake for our birthday guests on Saturday. And I managed to mess up the almond bread as well since it wasn’t baked thoroughly when I cut it. That’s three days in a row!! And the christmas baking season is about to start….maybe I should think about outsourcing. Our friend’s 4-year-old daughter already found a cookie box under the little one’s bed (don’t ask me what it was doing there…) and she offered to take it home, fill it with self-made cookies and deliver it back to us. Sounds fine to me!

Nonetheless I am looking forward to some more baking and to some cosy pre-Christmas moments! Presents are already halfway done, so I am hoping for a wonderful and somehow relaxing christmas season! And I wish the same to all of you!

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this moment

The little one waiting for our coffee-cake-birthday guests (who are due to arrive in six hours).

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A single photo – no words – capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment to pause, savor and remember. Inspired by SouleMama.

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a bit of everyday insanity

This was supposed to be a post about safety! Yes, safety! For some good reasons, I recently wondered about safety and it’s perception.

BUT…..I’ll write about it later!

See, fifteen minutes ago I asked my beloved husband whether he would grant me ten minutes to start writing a blog post. And since he is the best husband of the world, he happily agreed (no sarcasm!). So during the last ten minutes I was sitting in front of the laptop. The little one started to play her drum set right next to me. My husband was on the phone – right next to me. When he was done, he started talking to me, asking questions. The little one started to play with the keys. My husband was done asking me questions and started marching up and down in front of me while whistling Jingle Bells. I rolled my eyes. He sat down right next to me, asking what’s wrong. I tried to explain that this wasn’t what I meant when I asked for ten minutes to concentrate. The little one started to use the keys as a screwdriver on her chair. Karsten said he’ll be quiet. And told the little one to blow the whistle on the keys instead. Two minutes later he started to tickle the little one (hence loud laughter and cries of joy). And right now he is singing the Finnish bathing song…or at least what he remembers of it…while drumming on a paper box. All of this happens not in one of the other three available rooms but within a two meter radius around me.  Somehow, my family seems to be drawn to me like moths to the flame.

Sometimes it’s just difficult to grab my thoughts. They start to form in my head, and then they are scared away by all the distraction. For now I will stop trying to catch them.

For the record: I finish this post while the little one is banging plastic toys together and Karsten tries to play the ode to joy on the chimes. With the drumstick in his mouth….

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